"What’s your greatest struggle right now?" "The death of my husband." "How’d you meet?" "I was at a party on Fire Island, and this man walked in. I was about 25 at the time and recently divorced. I thought: ‘He looks interesting, I should get to know him.’ We ended up talking all night long. The next morning we were engaged, and two weeks later we were married." "So what did he say when he asked you to marry him?" "He didn’t really ask. He just said: ‘Let’s get married.’"